The groomsmen aren't seating guests, the photographer takes off early, the bride faints during the ceremony and later has red wine spilled all over her dress, and the band is playing the "do not play" list. Think it can't happen? From a bride who had every one of those things happen and then some, I can strongly assert that yes.it.can. Now, did I let all of these mishaps ruin my wedding? No; but, my biggest regret was not hiring a Ohio wedding planner who could have headed many of these issues off at the pass and then some!
If I were to do it all over again, the very first thing I would do would be to hire a reputable and well-respected Ohio wedding planner. I spent countless hours scouring venues, researching florists, negotiating rates with limousine companies and giving direction to family and friends on where to be and when. A Ohio wedding planner would have handled each with grace, and saved me my time and sanity.
After becoming engaged that freshly engaged glow shines across a bride's face, and she exudes happiness comparable to Holly Golightly. Then, reality sets in, and it becomes time to get down to business. Picking the dress, choosing the color scheme, hiring a florist, listening to band demos, it all seems neverending. It all can be arranged through a Ohio wedding planner. But where to find the Ohio wedding planner for you?
The Bibles to many brides are found in the magazine section of the bookstore. InStyle Weddings, BRIDE, Martha Stewart Weddings - all provide information and ideas for brides who are just starting to find their way toward the aisle. Flip to the back of the magazine for some local advertisements, and you're bound to find a plethora of Ohio wedding planner contacts.
Another way to find a Ohio wedding planner is on TheKnot.com or WeddingChannel.com where brides-to-be can participate in local discussions and get feedback from recently wed brides. These websites provide testimonials and real-time feedback about the good, the bad, and the ugly of weddings and the Ohio wedding planners who plan them.
Also check out local blogs, Facebook and Twitter for area Ohio wedding planners. Many have taken to social media to create awareness about their wedding planning business.
And ask around about good Ohio wedding planners! Coworkers, friends, or even event planners at potential wedding venues may all have had experience with a great Ohio wedding planner. Choosing a Ohio wedding planner from someone you trust is almost guaranteed to be a good experience.
Shop around and interview the Ohio wedding planners. They will be a big part of your life until your wedding, so it is essential that your personalities align, and that you and the Ohio wedding planner have a friendly and professional relationship. Be sure to ask the Ohio wedding planners you meet with some tough questions, like:
- How many weddings has the Ohio wedding planner planned?
- How much contact will the Ohio wedding planner and the couple have over the next few months?
- Will the Ohio wedding planner be present the entire wedding day?
- What is the worst experience the Ohio wedding planner has had on the wedding day?
- What is the Ohio wedding planner's most favorite / memorable wedding?
- Will the Ohio wedding planner have a day-of assistant?
- Will the Ohio wedding planner give you a realistic picture of how they can work within your budget?
- What are the Ohio wedding planner's rates?
- When does the Ohio wedding planner expect payment / a deposit?
- Does the Ohio wedding planner have existing relationships with local vendors?
- Can the Ohio wedding planner provide references from other couples?
The right Ohio wedding planner should have a broad range of experience from small to large receptions to church ceremonies versus beach ceremonies and more. Such questions and conversations will help to decide if the Ohio wedding planner is right for you. If you're Catholic and holding a full mass, and the potential Ohio wedding planner has never worked with a priest, it's safe to say that he or she will not be the Ohio wedding planner for you. But, the right Ohio wedding planner for you is out there!
Once you have selected a Ohio wedding planner, he/she should provide a contract and timeline outlining exactly what you expect from one another. Do you want to meet with potential photographers or would you prefer to have the Ohio wedding planner handle directly? It is imperative to address your expectations at the onset of your relationship with the Ohio wedding planner.
Truly, a Ohio wedding planner's job is to help make your wedding day the most special day of your and your groom's lives. The Ohio wedding planner should strive to essentially alleviate much of the stress leading up to the big day, and curb any hiccups that may happen the day of. And, there will always be a hiccup. Hiring a quality Ohio wedding planner will allow you and your family to celebrate and be completely enveloped by the love that surrounds your day. And that is best decision you will make throughout the course of your engagement, aside from saying, "I Do."